Remembering Spencer on Vacation

I am not sure how some families remember the ones that they have lost but I decided that when we, as a family, go on vacation anywhere that I want to remember Spencer.  Spencer may not be with us anymore but he is ALWAYS on my mind.  I had decided that wherever we go that I would write Spencer's name somewhere / somehow.  

In July this year my family went to Beaver's Bend where we rented a cabin for a few days so as I tried to think of a way to write his name and the place to write it I finally decided that I would write his name with rocks on the porch of our cabin.  

In September we were able to take a trip to Hawaii and, again, I found the perfect place to write Spencer's name to remember him there also.  

I love this picture of my first son looking at his brother's name wrote in the sand.

What do you do to remember the child(ren) you lost?